SHANE RAM

From my recent article on the Science of Attraction, I have received a lot of requests for Strategy Sessions to get people on their way to using the  Science of Attraction effectively to achieve the life they want, be it in career, money, health, business or relationships.

From these sessions, and my experience of dealing with thousands of people on the issue, the ability to set proper goals is a real challenge. It is unfortunate that professionals could complete up to a doctoral level and still never learn to set a goal properly. Many  organisations have performance management systems and in my almost 20 years experience in Human Resources, there are very few organisations and therefore very few professionals who are able to set a goal in the right way. At best they learn about SMART goals and while this is a good start, it is grossly insufficient to setting proper goals.

To get the Science of Attraction to work for you,  there is one critical thing...

Congratulations for even opening this article!

There are a lot of people who are not even contemplating having a coach or a mentor, so congrats again.

It takes a certain level of humbleness to investigate into getting a coach or mentor.

Humbleness is the realization that there is something that you don’t know or something you are able to do by yourself and there is someone out there who can help you.

I can assure you that whatever challenge you are facing, there is someone out there who can help you. Life is just too short to struggle trying to figure it out by yourself.

Many people are realising that the successful people that they see all had a coach or a mentor, well most of them anyway. This is very evident in the sports and it is now being transferred to other aspects of life, career and business.

At the same time, many people are seeing the great opportunity there is in coaching as a lifestyle career. Once you have an internet connection or even a phone connection...

There is a relationship in your life that you are most likely unaware of, that you are participating in that is dictating  your success.

I had earlier promised to give you some insights into knowing  about the relationship between your conscious  mind and your sub-conscious mind and how it  impacts your ability to attract the things you  want in your life, be it in career, business, relationships, money, health and even spirituality. It is related to my earlier article on the Science of Attraction,

Do you know that 90% of the  decisions you make on a daily basis are not your conscious decisions?

Think about it, did you consciously make a decision to brush  your teeth this morning? Probably not. At some point in time you  did make a conscious decision to brush your teeth and you  would have done it several times. After doing it consciously several times, it became sub-conscious and it was put  on...

Have you ever asked yourself?:

Is this it?

Is this what the next 20 – 30 years of my life going to be like?

Is this it?

Is this what life is really meant to be like?

Is this it?

Is this amount of money worth doing something I don’t fully enjoy, with people I don’t really like?

I understand, I asked those questions for a long time.

If you have ever asked yourself any of these questions it might mean that you are not living/working according to your purpose, your diving assignment on this earth.

Mark Twain said that there are two important days in your life, the day you are born and the day you realise WHY you were born.

Unfortunately, most people never find the reason why they are born, never take up their divine assignment.

This often translates into job and career dissatisfaction, relationship challenges, money challenges and very often both physical and emotional health issues.

I have been to almost every continent in the world (have not been to Antarctica) and...

What’s the most important part of a car?

Did you think ‘engine’?

That’s the most common answer I get when I ask the question.

But it’s not the correct answer.

Tires! you might have also thought.

Not the correct answer.

Are you now thinking the transmission?

Still not the correct answer.

Ah ha, the driver! Nope, still not the correct answer.

The answer is, the most important part of the car is the part that is missing.

With the best engine in the world, the car will not be able to achieve its objective if it had no wheels or the transmission was not working.

What is the part that is missing in your life or business that is preventing you from achieving your goals?

What if it was a little fuse hidden somewhere you cannot even see it?

This is the reality for most people, they are not aware of what is keeping them back from their success.

Recently, I was in Toronto, Canada giving a Keynote and I asked the group the same question. Many people...

(This applies whether you have children or may have children in the future.)

Do you wish that your children live up to their highest potential?

Do you wish that they find their calling, align with their gift and share it with the world?

Do you wish that your children change lives and earn more by starting their dream business?

Bad news! They are less likely to do it if YOU don’t do it.

{Name] Are you the kind of parent who says Do as I say but don’t do as I do?

I am sure by now you know that does not work.

Children do what they see, not what they are told and YOU are their greatest role model.

What are they seeing?

Chances are that they are seeing that you have been wanting to leave your job and start your business for the last 2-5 years.

If you are a woman, there is an 89% chance that your children have been seeing you stuck in your soul sucking job, not getting to your highest potential and simply not happy.

If you are over 35 years, there is an 81% chance that your...

Did you know that gratitude can significantly increase your happiness?

Is there some area of your life that you can be happier? Relationships, business, career, money, health?

Life is too short to not be happy. While you may not be happy all the time, you should be able to find happiness in all areas of life that you participate in, be it relationships, career, money, health or parenting.

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to move from a neutral or positive state to negative state? Bad driver on the road, someone pisses you off at work, your partner does or says something that irks you. We instantaneously move from a neutral or positive state to a negative one full of anger and rage.

Do you find it difficult to do the reverse, move from a negative state to a positive state in an instant? Gratitude can help.

Quickly changing your focusing from the incident or situation to your gratitude list can quickly shift you from a negative state to a positive state.

More than this, gratitude...

Are you an executive or senior leader in an organisation and you want to get to the next level or simply lead and manage more effectively where you are right now?

Coaching can definitely help you.

But what kind of coaching would be best for you, Life Coaching or Executive Coaching?

The answer depends on your ability to be honest with yourself and self diagnose, ironically something a coach is supposed to be able to help you with.

If you are looking for a sounding board to help improve your decision making and implementation skills, strategic thinking and planning skills or your time management skills etc, a good Executive Coach will definitely help.

A quick internet search of the top leaderships skills will reveal:

Communication Skills
Motivation. …
Delegating. …
Interpersonal Skills
Conflict Management Skills
Positivity. …
Trustworthiness. …
Feedback. …
Responsibility.
If you have gotten feedback from your boss or colleagues on any of the above as an area...

Do you sometimes feel like you are doing, doing, doing but you are not very fulfilled?
 
Do you feel like you are not where you thought you would be in your money, career or relationship?
 
It may be because you are not doing what is really important to YOU.
 
A quick way to figure out what is really important to you is to analyse how you spend YOUR TIME and how you spend YOUR MONEY.
 
If you have a diary or scheduler, review it for the last month and make a list of what you spend YOUR TIME on starting with the thing you spend you most time on and then the thing you spend the second most amount of time and so on….
 
If you do not use a scheduler, start using one and track it for the next two weeks and then analyse what you spend most of your time.
 
If you use a budget or track your expenses, review the last three months and analyse what you spend most of YOUR MONEY on. Make a list, starting with the item that you spend the...