The REAL SECRET of the Ultra-Successful?
Did you know that the REAL SECRET of the Ultra-successful is NOT hard work?
Did you know that the REAL SECRET of the Ultra-successful is NOT their qualifications?
Did you know that the REAL SECRET of the Ultra-successful is NOT their network?
While hard work, knowledge and a strong network are critical to success a closer look at the lives of the ultra successful reveals a much deeper secret.
Caution: When I reveal it, you might be tempted to click away because you might think this does not apply to you. Read through then make your judgement.
What does Oprah, Lady Gaga and Steve Jobs have in common?
What do you have in common with these ultra successful people?
Trauma! (Yes you had it too)
Most people think that Trauma is something really bad happening to them (like physical or sexual abuse) but trauma could be a simple as your parents not picking you up from school on time, maybe last, and you felt something was wrong with you.
Most trauma happens in childhood and...
Delete These for REAL CHANGE
Karen wanted to start a business but she procrastinated, was waiting for everything to be perfect and doubted herself. She tried everything: read the business and personal development books, took some courses, listened to influencers and motivational speakers etc. But the Real Change came when she able to identify the ROOT CAUSE and remove her negative beliefs.
Have you been wanting to change something in your life or business but have not been able to really change?
Did reading all the stuff made you feel like you are missing something and you need to ADD something to your life or business in order to change?
What if you really needed to DELETE some things?
You see, most people think that they need more information and motivation in order to change. Karen was very motivated and had lots of information but still could not change.
Information and motivation are critical but they will not bring about the CHANGE unless you identify and remove the blocks that keep you back. These...
Denial, Resignation or Purpose?
Which of these three paths are you on?
This article is the third in a series articles. It would be very useful to read the first two articles to understand the context of this article and to maximise any benefit that you may receive from it 1)- https://www.shaneram.com/blog/the-tale-of-two-mountains and 2) https://www.shaneram.com/blog/your-mission-should-you-choose-to-accept-it
Are you in Denial that there is a second mountain of purpose, impact, fulfilment etc?
Have you Resigned to the fact that you will continue to struggle for the rest of your life living on the first mountain?
Or have you already decided to leave the first mountain and climb the second and live a life of Purpose, Impact and Fulfilment?
There are three usual paths that people take when they realise that they were climbing the wrong mountain - Denial, Resignation or Purpose.
Denial - These people act as if they don't know that the second mountain exists. To fill the hole, they keep up...