The REAL SECRET of the Ultra-Successful?

career entrepre happiness personal productivity success Mar 30, 2020

Did you know that the REAL SECRET of the Ultra-successful is NOT hard work?

Did you know that the REAL SECRET of the Ultra-successful is NOT their qualifications?

Did you know that the REAL SECRET of the Ultra-successful is NOT their network?

While hard work, knowledge and a strong network are critical to success a closer look at the lives of the ultra successful reveals a much deeper secret.

Caution: When I reveal it, you might be tempted to click away because you might think this does not apply to you. Read through then make your judgement.

What does Oprah, Lady Gaga and Steve Jobs have in common?

What do you have in common with these ultra successful people?

Trauma! (Yes you had it too)

Most people think that Trauma is something really bad happening to them (like physical or sexual abuse) but trauma could be a simple as your parents not picking you up from school on time, maybe last, and you felt something was wrong with you.

Most trauma happens in childhood and too often professionals process these events from an adult perspective and do not think that 'it was that bad' or that 'it did not affect my life'

Here are some typical events that cause trauma:

Has any of these happened to you?

Oprah and Lady Gaga were both sexually abused and Steve Jobs had to leave his biological parents and live with his adopted parents.

I have coached CEOs, UN Officials, entrepreneurs etc and almost all had an incident that has kept them back from their ultimate success.

The difference is that the Ultra Successful has either used their trauma as a driver to do something amazing and/or have purposefully dealt with their trauma.

For most other people trauma has caused us to:

  • Procrastinate
  • Play Small
  • Stay in Toxic Relationships
  • Become a Perfectionist
  • Become an Addict (to work, social media, alcohol, prescription drugs, sex, shopping, drugs, spiritual entertainment, getting qualified, etc)
  • Doubt Yourself
  • Worry
  • Fear of Other People's Opinion
  • Survive but not THRIVE
  • Etc

In short, trauma blocks YOU from reaching YOUR highest potential.

A more comprehensive list of trauma effects:



Would you like to get to the Root Cause of what has you stuck and keeping you back from your ultimate success?

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About Shane Ram

Shane Ram is an Executive and Life Coach, HR Consultant, author and a sought after global keynote speaker. He helps successful female executives and entrepreneurs to leverage their expertise to create a legacy brand/product/cause that positively impacts humanity so that they have more fulfilling lives with time, emotional and financial freedom.

Shane's strikingly effective coaching process shows individuals and corporate teams how to create the personal lives they want while becoming a megastar at work. To book a time to speak with Shane go to To book Shane for events and seminars go to or call 1-868-351-5000 or email at [email protected]

He is also the CEO and Founder of Go For 10, a company that provides transformational education for all ages, through mediums that range from digital publishing, educational technology, online learning, content, events and more. We stand for ideas that enable people to be extraordinary and impact lives.